Written by Oliver Winn Stevens, these letters chronicle his year-long pursuit to win the affection and marry Mary A. Stevens. His correspondences highlight themes of financial responsibility, tradition, and religion, reflecting similar values found in the letters of other Bennet family members displayed in this exhibit.
Letter from Oliver Winn Stevens to Mrs. Amarintha Stevens, mother of Mary A. Stevens. Oliver asks Mrs. Stevens for her blessing to marry her daughter. Interestingly, Oliver does not ask Mary's father for permission to marry nor is Mary's father mentioned. Oliver expresses his romantic feelings for Mary, and shares that he is finally mature and able to support a family. Oliver's words suggest that he prioritizes stability and maturity alongside his sentimental feelings.
Oliver Winn Stevens is now betrothed to Mary A. Stevens. Oliver explains that he and Mary live twenty miles apart, and therefore letter correspondence helps bridge their long-distance relationship. Oliver expresses his affections for Mary, but must prioritize work. He reassures Mary that because they have known one another long before the engagement, their relationship will work long-term. Oliver takes on the role of provider.
